Thursday, 26 May 2011

MUST BUY - These are the essential books!

The Magic Of Making Up (Get Your Ex Back)
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My favorite, really did help my friend and his ex get back together, an he is forever grateful, a little more expensive, but you can put a price on the person you love right?

Get Your Ex Back: The Guide To Winning The Relationship Game (cheap but excellent book)
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You want a cheaper option but still high quality. I've done my research and found that people LOVE this book. If anything you should check this one out, only a couple dollars.

How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Using The Law of Attraction
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Hey it's using science, it can't be wrong. Joking aside this does actually use some amazing techniques which really work. Would strongly recommend this book for help with your ex

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Can i get my Ex back even if they don't want to?

You may be thinking that since you have lost your boyfriend and he shows no interest in getting back together, that it’s over for good.
Honestly, it may be over for good, but you still may have a chance to win him back even if he shows no interest.
There’s really only one way of knowing if you can win him back, and that is to give it a try. He may be appearing to have moved on, and has no interest in you, but you may still have a chance.
The best thing you can do is to show him that you still care about him as a person. You can’t be a needy, stalking ex girlfriend – you need to be a supportive friend. By being mature and showing him that you can be in the same room together without creating drama, will go a long way to proving to him that you can still be friends, or at least acquaintances, without being in a love relationship.
Become a friend that understands his feelings, trials and successes. Joke with him and show him he can have a good time hanging out with you.
Most solid relationships start out as friendships, so you need to go back to the basics of being a friend. It could be that your relationship never grew from a strong friendship and that hurt your love relationship.
Going back to being friends and growing from there, may make for a stronger love relationship in the future.
Be warned that being friends can be difficult, especially when you see him dating other people. If you still want him back, that’s something you will have to deal with. As time goes by, he will either realize that you are a great friend and one of the few people he can really count on.
When you reach the point of being good friends, there will come a time when he will realize he still wants to be more than friends with you. Or, you may just realize that you have moved on and can no longer be more than friends with him.
In any case, you will have done the right, and mature thing, will have grown as a person and will either have won him back or you will me moving on to better relationship.

How to Get Your Ex Back

When thinking about how to get your ex back, you may have a strong desire to talk things through with your ex… you might think that if you could get them to sit down and discuss the problems in your relationship you might be able to convince them not to end the relationship. You might think that the easiest way to get them back might be to sit down and calmly discuss their grievances and once you have overcome all their objections they will happily come running back to you.

Please don’t kid yourself for a minute by thinking that talking things through will ever work. Chances are that even offers to attend counseling on your own or together are probably going to fall on deaf ears. Chances are that if your relationship was on a downhill slide for a while an offer to discuss any problems or attend counseling will appear to be a last ditch effort to manipulate your ex into getting back together.

This is not to say that counseling doesn’t have its place in a relationship. Counseling can be a very powerful and effective tool to help cement your relationship once both you and your partner have decided that getting back together is what you both desire. A counselor can be an impartial referee that can point out areas that both of you might wish to work on separately and together to help enhance your relationship.
As far as wanting to sit down with your ex and discuss what went wrong in the relationship, for the moment, nothing good can come of this. Any desire that you might say you have for “closure” or some sort of understanding of what went wrong stands little chance of being helpful to you. Haven’t you been hurt enough as it is? Why subject yourself to further rejection? Why do you want to know in detail why this person who loved you so much at one time now desires to be apart from you? Spare yourself the pain, retain your dignity and leave that discussion for another day.

Now is the time for you to rebuild yourself and heal from the wounds that you have suffered at the hands of your ex. Yes, it may be helpful at some point to take an inventory of yourself and see if there is any truth in the accusations that your ex has hurled at you. See if your ex has indeed pointed out any areas that you also feel are unacceptable in your life and set about to make some changes if you feel that YOU might benefit in the long run.

Again, there is nothing wrong with visiting a counselor if that is the route that you wish to take. But your first order of business before inviting them along or discussing “what’s wrong with you” should be to set about formulating a game plan on how to get your ex back.
New posts later :)

Wednesday, 25 May 2011

MUST BUY - These are the essential books!

The Magic Of Making Up (Get Your Ex Back)
Click Here!

My favorite, really did help my friend and his ex get back together, an he is forever grateful, a little more expensive, but you can put a price on the person you love right?

Get Your Ex Back: The Guide To Winning The Relationship Game (cheap but excellent book)
Click Here!
You want a cheaper option but still high quality. I've done my research and found that people LOVE this book. If anything you should check this one out, only a couple dollars.

How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Using The Law of Attraction
Click Here!
Hey it's using science, it can't be wrong. Joking aside this does actually use some amazing techniques which really work. Would strongly recommend this book for help with your ex
The last post was a bit brief

But hey every little helps when it comes to getting back together or getting to the right place :)

Ten Brief mistakes that will stop you getting your ex back

MISTAKE #1: Acting Overly Nice And Believing It Makes You A Great Catch


MISTAKE #2: Trying To Persuade Your Ex To Come Back With Logic


MISTAKE #3: Playing The Role Of Human Doormat


MISTAKE #4: Showering Your Ex With Flowers And Gifts


MISTAKE #5: Saying “I Love You” Every 5 Minutes


MISTAKE #6: Missing Whole Point Of Chemistry

Too many people completely miss the point of attracting the opposite sex because they do things that would attract themselves or others like them… in other words, people of the same gender.


MISTAKE #7: Giving Your ex All Your Power


MISTAKE #8: The Looks And Money Trap

Our culture makes it so easy for people to believe that looks and money are all people care about.


MISTAKE #9: Mis-Reading The Cues


MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

Relationships - Tips and advice!

What's the key to successful relationships? Well we have a few tips which will hopefully come in very helpful.

1. Quality time is when you get to spend precious moments making all the points below work. So spend evening or days together every so often exclusively.

2. A good relationship is built on compromise and a great deal of give and take on both sides.

3. Although you want to see them alot, independence and dependence should have some balance, so see your partner here and then and go out with your friends when you can. As they say "Time apart makes the heart grow fonder".

4. Trust! Trust! Trust! Trust each other and you will have a much more comfortable relationship. Make sure you maintain that trust though and it's not just there for the hell of it.

5. Appreciate each other, compliments are always welcome even if they say they don't like them.

6. Show each other what you like in the bedroom, knowing how to have sex with each other and satisfy them makes everything a lot easier and more fun

7. Give your partner a smile, smiles work on so many levels, and always leave the recipient in a better mood to some degree, try it, it's free

8.Sadly sometimes the little things you loved at the start become annoying or irrelevant, just wait, and learn to love them for who they are.

9. COMMUNICATION. The old key point. If you have something which is bothering you, the more you keep it to yourself the more tension their will be between you and your partner.

10. Punishing your partner isn't necessarily the best idea. However rewarding them when they're good is a better strategy

The Best Ebook I've Ever Read on Getting Your Ex Back

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Thats the link to the page.

So one of my best friends broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years the other day, is really what made me want to write this, knowing how it feels i wanted to help so badly, but a lot of the time it's hard for your friends to give the best advice. So it is always a good idea to seek some professional advice. Despite the fact we are about relationships, love and getting your ex back, their will always be some one with better advice. Thats not true :P We will have the best advice sometimes.

This book costs a couple dollars, but, my best friend is now the guy he used to be and is as happy as ever AND is back in his happy relationship.

Seriously if you want help on getting back together or moving on, this is the single best book you will ever read for this.

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Welcome!

Now if you've found yourself to this page you've got a certain person on your mind, no need to say who, whether it's your boyfriend, girlfriend, a secret crush or your ex who want help getting back.

Assuming the above is correct then you're in the right place!!! :) This blog is set up to deal with some key issues that i feel are lacking on the interwebs.

-Help with relationships
-Advice on problems with your boyfriend or girlfriend
-Help getting your ex back
-Help with dealing with breakups
-Sexy sexy sex help
-And a whole other range of relationship related help.

But i setup this blog with helping getting your ex boyfriend / ex girlfriend back or in to the place you want them to be. (And i don't mean into a ditch :p )

Occasionally we will have reviews of ebooks and other things which I believe are excellent at helping you out.

Please contact us if you want to!

Thank you muchly